- 1. ALCOHOL, DRUGS, MEDICINE ETC.
Taking substances like alcohol, drugs and even some medications from your doctor is harmful and inhibits free flow of energy within your body. Thus we will refuse to do the treatment if you are under influence of alcohol or drugs ( in case of medications from your doctor we will discuss it in person ) and you will be the charged full amount for your lack of responsibility. Even if you are nervous don't take any substances to suppress it. Breathe deep instead and talk to the therapist when you arrive. This will be much more beneficial for you rather then running away into the suppression of your feelings.
- 2. SEX, EJACULATION BEFORE TANTRA SESSION
It is generally recommended to not ejaculate ( though you may have sex without ejaculation ) at least 2-3 days prior to Tantra session. The reason for this is that with every ejaculation the sexual energy - the concentrated life-force energy called Prana in Hinduism - is dissipated and lost unless you know how to harness it. During the Tantra session we intend to direct it in such a way that it flows within the body and it has been proven that people who know how to harness this energy ( instead of losing it ) have much more intense orgasms.
- 3. WHAT IS TANTRA REALLY ABOUT ?
In our Western culture, the term "Tantra" has a confusing number of different connotations. It awakens the most varied associations, depending on who is using it and who is listening. For us Tantra is a philosophy of life that respects all living beings. Discrimination and judgments are to be avoided and dissolved. According to Tantra, the sexual nature of humans, which has often been vilified and rejected, should neither be particularly emphasized nor denied. Instead, it is a natural part of a holistic perception of what is. We deal with the sexual energy as one of the many aspects of being human. Our work is focused on an understanding of the unity of body, mind and soul.
- 4. IS THERE A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TANTRIC MASSAGE AND SENSUAL/EROTIC MASSAGE ?
Tantric massage uses a combination of breathing, energy work, bodywork, as well as sensual touching to bring you into your body, being more fully present, more empowered, to release the negative thoughts and distractions of the mind and enter a space, a trance-like state where complete love, acceptance, pleasure, and bliss exist. Tantra is a complete yoga and spiritual practice all to itself. Sensual/erotic massage, on the other hand, when considered as massage with happy ending, is very limiting and empty in comparison.
- 5. DO YOU PROVIDE A HAPPY ENDING WITH YOUR MASSAGES ?
There are many ways to practice Tantra, for it is in a sense a form of art. If you see a hundred different providers, you will get a hundred different ways of delivering this art. Unfortunately, an aspect of modern society is that so many people think about the end result; the destination and not the journey. Both men and women are too goal oriented, instead of just connecting as a couple for pleasure and for the sake of intimacy. This is one reason why so many people rush through the finer, more sensual, aspects of life and are left unsatisfied.
In Tantra-massage there is no "happy ending". You simply learn to increase awareness of your body's response system. The whole process of learning to "dance with blissful energy" is happy; from the very start right up until the session is over. You will never want it to end ! Our primary goal it to show you, teach you and expand your awareness about giving yourself and your body the pleasure and be intimate. We help you to remove the blockages within your body which stop the flow of energy and prevent you from living in joy. Tantric massage celebrates everything which is natural and which charges your body.
Therefore ejaculation during your lingam's massage is not understood as anything wrong. But the main goal of a Tantra - Sexual Healing Massage is not to make the man ejaculate because ejaculation means a complete discharge of male energy which could be transformed by you and used in other ways.
- 6. CAN I ASK FOR SEXUAL FAVOURS OR SERVICES ?
This is something that must be avoided at all times. Although the treatments are sensual and often appear sexual, it is never OK to ask for sexual services from our masseurs. Performing sexual services during a Tantric massage ritual is considered to be an insult to the practice of Tantra. We highly appreciate you not asking for sexual services to the Tantric therapists.
- 7. WHAT PARTS OF MY BODY WILL BE MASSAGED ?
Usually your full body session will include pleasuring your whole body: back, bottom, legs, feet, arms, hands, neck, tummy, chest and shoulders. I will stimulate the erogenous areas of your body as well. If you feel uncomfortable with being touched in certain areas or you have boundaries, please let me know.
- 8. ARE THERAPISTS NAKED DURING A TANTRIC MASSAGE ?
Yes. Therapists are naked during the massage, but touching the therapist is discouraged as our intention is for you to relax and to receive the massage.
- 9. IS IT NORMAL FOR ME TO BE NERVOUS TO RECEIVE A TANTRIC MASSAGE FOR THE FIRST TIME ?
It is completely normal for anyone experiencing something brand new to be a bit apprehensive. A Tantric massage is no exception; in fact because you may also feel slightly more vulnerable the feeling of nervousness maybe enhanced a tad. But don't fret, we will help put your mind at ease, help you to feel more comfortable and let your body naturally ease into the experience.
- 10. WHAT IF I AM NOT COMFORTABLE WHEN I ARRIVE ?
I will greet you at the front door. We can say hello while you slip off your shoes. If by chance you are not comfortable please feel free to say and I will understand and you may leave. I want You to be comfortable.
BEFORE & DURING THE SESSION
- 11. HOW SHALL I PREPARE MYSELF FOR A TANTRIC MASSAGE ?
The ultimate preparation is to be free from expectations. The best is not to have a set idea in the mind as the mind can never conceive the depths of our own being. Set some time aside for a favorite soothing and relaxing activity whether it be listening to your favorite music, taking a bubble bath, sitting quietly in meditation, doing some yoga or whatever you're comfortable with. Take your time, it might be one of the best investments in your life.
- 12. PERSONAL HYGIENE
Please shower before arrival. If that is not possible, I do have showering facilities. Please give an extra important scrub to your armpits and pelvic + anal area.
Also for your own comfort, it is important to go to the toilet before massage. The best results occur with massage when the bowel and bladder are empty.
- 13. WHAT DO I DO DURING MY SESSION ?
First of all let go completely, no thinking, no expectations, relax, breathe, surrender, enjoy every moment, breathe, concentrate on your breathing, breathe...
- 14. WHO WILL MASSAGE ME ?
Our team consists of therapists who are genuinely keen about massage, tantra, energy techniques and healing. They are thoroughly educated in Tantra Massage as well as other techniques for working with the body - Classic massage, Thai massage, Shiatsu, Lava stones massage, Hawaiian Lomi Lomi massage, Reiki, to name a few.
- 15. IS IT POSSIBLE TO CHOOSE A MASSEUR ?
At the moment we have 2 male therapists - Greg and Martin. Thus you may choose one of us if we are available. In the future we will also work with other therapists and then you will have more choice.
- 16. CAN I TOUCH THE THERAPIST ?
Tanric massage has its rules. One of them is the fact that the masseur is the giver, you are the receiver and these roles are not exchanged during the massage. The masseur might allow you some light contact touch which is motivating and pleasant for him. Erotic touching by you as well as touches of intimate areas as well as all the touches made without obvious consent are very disturbing to the flow of energy between you and the masseur. This leads to an unsatisfactory outcome in the Tantric massage. It ends up as a fight between the giver and receiver rather than as being a sacred ritual of joy. It strongly devalues the experience and the principle of Tantric massage. Your therapist takes care of you with great attention, trust and tenderness, please don't violate these rules.
- 17. IS IT ALRIGHT IF DURING THE MASSAGE I BECOME AROUSED AND POSSIBLE GET AN ERECTION ?
Yes! Tantra massage relaxes and recharges energy. Sexual energy commonly concentrates in the pelvis, and awakens during the massage. Commonly we experience this as arousing, which is why Tantra Massage can be so sensuous. We welcome what comes naturally.
- 18. WHAT DO I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT ANAL MASSAGE ? SHOULD I PREPARE FOR IT SOMEHOW ?
Stimulation of the anal area is part of the massage. There is a lot of stress and tension accumulated within this area and our massage helps to release these points and let the energy flow throughout your whole body. Anal massage is always done only with the clear prior agreement of the participant. We will explain to you everything you need to know about it. And if such a massage is not what you want do not be afraid to say so. You do not have to do anything special beforehand but of course it helps sometimes if you manage to empty your bowel before you arrive.
Anal massage is performed softly only by using fingers and after a long period relaxing the pelvis and anal area. The masseuse uses soft gloves or finger covers and good quality lubricant. We never use artificial objects to insert anywhere in you.
- 19. WHAT HAPPENS DURING A TANTRIC MASSAGE SESSION ?
During a Tantric Massage session you receive a massage that doesn't exclude or focus on any body part. You are coached into breathing properly during the duration of the massage. You can either go the bliss road or the orgasmic road. We discourage both as they are just stepping stones. We aim at assisting you to take charge of your sexual energy, to combine it with your life force (who you really are) and to live life to the fullest.
- 20. CAN I EXPERIENCE MULTIPLE ORGASM DURING MY MASSAGE ?
Yes, you can. Once your therapist starts to release the points of stress and the energy starts to flow throughout your body you may feel things which you have never thought are possible - you may have a deep whole body orgasm ( without ejaculation ) or you may have multiple orgasms. But don't make yourself any expectations within your mind because this usually creates stress and if you don't let go completely, then it is much more difficult to open up the points and let the energy flow freely.
- 21. WHAT IF I HAVE AN ORGASM TOO EARLY ?
If that happens, you can still enjoy the rest of the massage. While the masseuse/masseur works on other parts of you, you might want to relax and allow the masseuse/masseur to return to your genitals later so that you can feel again the flow of the energy in your body, allowing it to rise without a quick orgasmic experience into a deep whole body orgasm.
RESERVATION & CANCELLATION
- 22. DO I NEED TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ?
Yes. You cannot have a Tantric massage session without making an appointment first. That said, we allow our clients to make an appointment as little as one or two hours before the session under certain circumstances. But the best is if you make your appointment at least 1 day in advance.
- 23. CAN YOU COME TO MY OFFICE/HOTEL ROOM ?
At the moment Call out massage service is not possible. You are welcome to visit me in private and very relaxing studio in Playa del Ingles on Gran Canaria, SPAIN.
- 24. CANCELLATION POLICY
Punctuality is important. Please text the practitioner if you are going to be late, or need to cancel. An appointment for pleasure is still a business appointment. I require 24-hours notice by phone (not email or text) for any cancellations or re-scheduling of sessions.
- 25. THIS WILL BE MY FIRST TANTRIC EXPERIENCE. WHAT LENGTH OF SESSION WOULD YOU RECOMMEND ?
Since this is your first experience, I would recommend the 2 hour session. It will give you some extra time to relax and feel comfortable as well as give me ample time to guide you through the experience at the speed most comfortable for you.
- 26. HOW OFTEN DO YOU SUGGEST GETTING TANTRIC SESSIONS ?
This would be something you'd have to ask your own body. I'd recommend scheduling a session and seeing how you feel afterwards. If you enjoy the session very much, determine how Tantric sessions can fit into your lifestyle. I have a number of clients who consider me their regular massage therapist, yet others book sessions once every couple months. If you originally scheduled a session in order to become more open within your body, I would greatly encourage you to rebook in a week or two because the body's habit is to go back to the "old brain" patterns. We have to keep working and moving forward to let go of the old and move into the new.
TANTRA FOR COUPLES
- 27. I WOULD LIKE TO GET A MASSAGE TOGETHER WITH MY PARTNER - IS THAT POSSIBLE ?
A very warm welcome! We offer massage for couples in one room or in two separate rooms.
- 28. WHAT IS SPECIAL ABOUT A MASSAGE FOR COUPLES ?
What is special about the massage for couples is that both partners simultaneously immerse themselves in a sensual experience. Later they can share what they experienced with each other, thus enriching their couple relationship permanently.
- 29. WE WOULD LIKE TO TRY COUPLE MASSAGE BUT WE ARE WORRIED HOW WE MIGHT FEEL ABOUT STRANGERS TOUCHING US
If it your first massage as a couple then it is quite natural to have your concerns about it. Tantric couple massage is a great opportunity for your relationship to experience something new and exciting. It is also a symbol of your mutual trust and respect. A Tantric Couple Massage must be based on trust between the clients and masseurs. Before we start any massage we discuss the massage with you. We will ask you if you have any special wishes, what is your intent and what are your limits. You will agree a safe word or signal that will give you a safety feeling that nothing unwanted is happening and you can enjoy and let your partner enjoy the experience. Our team has considerable experience with massages for partners and so we understand the concerns you might have.
- 30. IS IT POSSIBLE FOR MY PARTNER TO ACCOMPANY ME TO THE MASSAGE AND WATCH ?
Yes. Please request this option when booking your massage.
HEALTH PROBLEMS AND TANTRA
- 31. WILL TANTRIC RITUALS BE DANGEROUS FOR MY HEALTH ?
Tantric massage rituals are very safe and beneficial, so there is no need to worry about them being hazardous at all. Our therapists are also trained by Tantra experts to ensure every part of the therapy is done properly.
If you have preexisting conditions, be sure to provide the details to the therapist directly. This way, the conditions can be anticipated and the treatment itself can be adjusted properly.
- 32. I HAVE PROBLEMS WITH ERECTION, IS THE MASSAGE NONETHELESS SUITABLE FOR ME ?
Yes! Lingam massage (intimate massage for men) is very pleasant regardless of erection. Delight spreads throughout the whole body. Tantra massage can have a positive influence on psychically-based erection dysfunction. Thank to the framework, without pressure or fear, you can relax deeply and experience your own sensuousness in a very intensive manner.
- 33. I SUFFER FROM ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION AND PREMATURE EJACULATION. CAN IT BE RECTIFIED AFTER TAKING YOUR WORKSHOP ?
We do not promise the results as you have mentioned in your question. Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation have many nuances and interpretation to their meaning. When the client suffer from a physical or medical condition, it is not within our domain to assist at all. Please consult a medical doctor.
What we do promise is that most clients discover their divine self, they move into a restful/alert state about themselves and their sexuality and most of what they have complained before about doesn't exist any more. This is a spiritual course with very prominent skills to be learned.
The combination of the two depends on your interpretation of reality and being. We are delighted to say that most participants felt after the workshop that they were well on their road to full sexual expression according their own measure.
- 34. WHY DO MEN SUFFER SO MUCH FROM PREMATURE EJACULATION ?
We receive emails from men asking for help with premature ejaculation. When we start asking them about their relationship with women, we hear that they experience a complete lack of intimacy with women. The life force is therefore deprived from circulating between men and women resulting in getting stuck in a focus point in the genitals.
- 35. CAN THE MASSAGE ENRICH MY SEXUAL LIFE IN A PARTNERSHIP ?
Definitely ! Whether you come together or alone, the touch which you receive is great inspiration for intimate touch in partnership. Moreover, during the massage you may encounter new dimensions to your sexuality. If you so wish, the masseur will teach you how to work with breath and spread sexual energy throughout the entire body. This method of energy circulation through the body originates from Taoism and supports the spreading of pleasure throughout the body. You will leave full of regenerating energy and each of your cells will be dancing with joy !
- 36. WHILST MAKING LOVE, I DO NOT FEEL MUCH AND I STAY OUT OF CONTACT WITH PHYSICAL PLEASURE. CAN THE MASSAGE HELP ?
Yes ! Thanks to the framework without pressure or expectations and loving and attentive touch you get the chance to reveal new dimensions to your experience. Tantra massage touches will address not only the body, but also the soul. The key to one's own sensuousness lies in the connection between the body and emotions - contact with what you feel in the heart. The safe framework of tantra massage and the sensitive approach will encourage this.
- 37. CAN YOU GUARANTEE THAT NO ONE WILL FIND OUT I HAVE HAD A TANTRIC MASSAGE ?
Although we have no control on what people are or are not able to find out, we do guarantee we are very discreet and if someone does find out it will not be from us. We never share or sell any of your information with anyone. In addition we will avoid embarrassing you by calling you at home or work. If you prefer you may want to provide us with some sort of contact method such as a cell phone number to confirm your appointment. If you have other instructions to retain your discretion and privacy we are willing to help in any way we can.
At the same time you should realise that Tantra massage is not a crime and you do not need to keep in secret you do it and be ashamed of it. This is a wonderful therapy which also can help to solve many problems an d it can help to improve and enrich your relationship and your sexuality. We are highly skilled professionals and we are proud of what we are doing.
- 38. I AM 65 YEARS OLD, IS THE MASSAGE FOR ME ?
We welcome people of all age categories. It is never late for a new and beautiful experience !
- 39. DOES THE SESSION DURATION MEAN JUST THE TIME I'M ON THE TABLE ?
Session duration means (as with any professional you'd work with) the moment you walk through the door (or the appointed start time, if you're late), a bathroom/shower visit, a brief in-take, table time/ritual session, shower, hydration, and departure. My sessions will typically include a few extra minutes as opposed to you ever leaving before the entire time is up.
Please note: If you're running late because you did not properly plan your arrival, it is up to our discretion whether I will still consider our original start time as the start of the session's duration or if I will consider the moment you walk through the door as the start time.
- 40. DOES THE TANTRIC MASSAGE TAKE PLACE ON A MASSAGE BED/TABLE ?
Tantra massage is performed on a futon mat on the floor. Other treatments like traditional relaxation massage or sport massage are done on a massage table.
- 41. WHY DOES A TANTRIC MASSAGE TAKE SUCH A LONG TIME?
A Tantric Massage deals with the life force flow in clients. Most people are not aware of it. Many can't find it. Others are controlled by it. The Tantric Massage Therapist assists the client to make awareness contact with their own life force. This process requires time.
- 42. DO YOU OFFER THERAPEUTIC MASSAGE OR ENERGY WORK SEPARATE FROM TANTRIC MASSAGE ?
Yes, we are fluent in Swedish, Deep-tissue, and Sports massage. Apart from this we have extensive knowledge and experience with other holistic and alternative therapies - Kinesiology, Reiki, Acupuncture, Physiotherapy, Aromatherapy and many others. Simply ask if you have any particular problem and we will try to help you or at least we will direct you to the appropriate specialists who cooperate with us.
- 43. DO I HAVE TO BE SPIRITUAL OR HAVE A DEEP UNDERSTANDING OF TANTRA TO SCHEDULE A SESSION ?
Absolutely not! All different types of people schedule sessions! Some are curious about Tantra and want to learn and incorporate Tantric practices into their lives. Others use sessions as a relaxing, pleasurable, and welcomed mini-vacation. Couples schedule to learn new things, enhance the love and sacred sexuality between them, and/or simply enjoy and honor each other's company.